I am so happy that the design at last linked after working on it for 2 days. I started to hate my job. I had sleepless nights to reach this stage and it really took almost all of my time. I hate the hack and patch and repair work. I am feeling so weak and tired since I came back to Malaysia. Nothing seems to motivate me.
But still I made some time to attend my dear friend's marriage registration yesterday afternoon. Both the married couple are my university coursemates. It was a short session and we spent almost two hours in Hardwicked chit-chatting and tea afterwards. Many friends from secondary school and university are tying knot this year. There were already a few last year but the number flocks this year because many of us has passed the age 25. I talked to a friend last week and she told me she married her husband because she knew he is the one she wants to marry when she first met him. So sweet.. That is how they hooked up so quickly.
Getting married is something really big in one's life. How can you make sure that you meet the right one? I am not into divorcing and I am sure everybody isn't too. So what is there to measure the compatibilty of you two.. ? Just like what the lady in the registration place was saying, both of you came from family of different background. It is true that the way you live, the way you were brought up are all different. It is the matter of how you compromise with each other and being considerate in everyday life to make two people staying under one roof. Also how the two can plan their future together, like where to settle down or when to have first kid. Anyway, all these came into my mind since so many people getting married this year. So I have to give a lot angpao this year :D
There are two weddings to attend this month but I can only choose one as they are both on the same date. I have a light yellow dress to shop for the wedding ceremony, I have not start seaching yet though.
oh weddings... Must be a big hassle. In some weddings, I think neither the bride not the bridegroom know some people that attended their wedding dinner. They are maybe their parents' friends or business friends. I think I would like a private wedding , maybe just attended by family and close friends. Probably a travel wedding will be nice, relaxing and can be very romantic. :) Time to work and stop dreaming..